Well, In the last couple of days I've been working mostly from my office, doing some "office" related stuff... you know, paper work, taxes, contracts and more "fun" stuff. But in between those "activities", I had the privilege of working with one young bride, (whose photographs I'm NOT going to post, since she doesn't want her fiancé to see her on her wedding gown before the wedding day), a girl who is really excited about her wedding day, a girl who taught me a really nice lesson, or I better say that she reminded me about something really important.
The lesson that this young bride made me realized is that the Wedding day should be a beautiful, loving and relaxed day; a day where the bride and groom are getting united for at least this life, which is going to be at least for 50 years or more. Some other couples are getting married for this life and even for the eternities. What a beautiful day when that is happening. But, the "wedding industry" has turned this beautiful moment: The marriage of a loving couple, into a time where everything is money and a really stressed time for the couple and their families... and as a matter of fact, after asking some of my former customers and even family members, the answer I got is that the main memory they have from their wedding day is the stress they had; and secondly, is the love and fun they felt.
I don't deny the fact that everything cost, and there are some things that cost even more than that, but the important lesson here is that the couples should be focusing on the covenants and promises they are making that day, because is going to last (at least) a whole life, and for some, even longer than that, instead of worrying about the flavor of the cake or the colors in the center pieces for the tables in the reception center... Don't get me wrong (specially the brides to be), I am a guy and I don't understand everything that girls do, but take a moment in your wedding planing, and put everything aside to breath and make this event a fun time for everybody around you... then, if everything is under control and everybody is happy, keep planing your wedding day as you were; otherwise, make the needed changes and keep planing it.
If you are struggling with these, let me know, since I have plenty of resources for wedding events.
Thanks for taking the time to read these thoughts that I felt I should share with all of you. If you have comments about it, please, I would love to hear them and problably have a nice "blog-open" conversation; your comment could probably help somebody else.
Thanks again for your time.
AL.
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